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May 14, 2006

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THE MERRY MONTH OF MAY:
MOTHER MIRTH


I hope all you mothers are having a wonderful day today and being honored and honoring yourselves. And of course I want to include in that everyone who’s ever been a “mother” to anyone or anything.
It’s always fun to see what kids think about this topic of mothers, so I thought I’d start out today with some questions about moms and answers from kids.

Why did God make mothers?
She's the only one who knows where the scotch tape is.
What ingredients are mothers made of?
God makes mothers out of clouds and angel hair and everything nice in the world and one dab of mean.
What did mom need to know about dad before she married him?
Did he say NO to drugs and YES to chores?
What's the difference between moms & dads?
Moms know how to talk to teachers without scaring them.
Moms have magic. They make you feel better without medicine.
And this last one. (Sorry guys, but I couldn’t resist.)
Who's the boss at your house?
Mom doesn't want to be boss, but she has to because dad's such a goof ball.
Kids tell it the way it is, don’t they?

But seriously, is there anyone here who’s still not sure what to get mom for Mother’s Day? Well, you might want to listen up, because I found this great help on the internet. It says a survey, of course we don’t know who’s taking the survey, but a survey of 500 mothers shows that the worst ever gifts were:

1. Forgetting Mother's Day
2. Kitchen appliances
3. Garden tools
4. Cleaning supplies
5. Dead flowers
According to the poll, best gifts ever were:
1. Jewelry
2. Home-made cards
3. Home-made gifts
4. A day to the Spa
5. Help with chores, or a day of rest
6. Beauty products

According to the poll, moms care most that they’re remembered their special day. A reassuring 46% said that anything their kids give them is a "good gift."

So there you have it.

This morning we continue our series on The Merry Month of May with Mother Mirth. I picked this title because of Mother’s Day, of course, and to continue our work with Joy, that aspect of Consciousness, or God, that really is the highest on the scale if you look at the works of the Abraham teachings or of David Hawkins and others.
But I also am wanting to look at not only Mother Mirth, but Mother Earth, as well. There’s such a direct link between the concept of mother and Earth, especially metaphysically speaking.

I want to share with you some thoughts from Barbara Marx Hubbard, who herself is the mother of 5. She has an essay in Healing Our Planet, Healing Our Selves, in which she talks about the fact that “The universe works in spirals,” beginning with “the void, the mind of God, and the field of all possibilities. The first turn on the spiral is the Big Bang, the formation of the universe.” On the 2nd turn matter appears, and then Earth. On the 3rd turn we find life, which on the 4th turn is in the form of animals, and by the 5th turn has formed humans.

But here’s the really interesting part. She says that on the 6th turn will be “the formation of a universal human life.” Now exactly what will the universal human life look like? She says, they’re “humans connected through the heart to the whole of life, humans awakening from within to the impulse of self and social evolution. . .”

“ Humans connected through the heart to the whole of life. . .” Connected. So how did we get disconnected to start with? Well, Dr. Hubbard says it started about 40 thousand years ago when we began to individuate and separate ourselves from nature. We left the Garden when we began to be self-conscious.”

“ Since then we’ve been hard at work developing civilization. But in 1945,” she says, “ something very significant happened when we dropped the atomic bomb on Japan. We suddenly realized that “if we continue in the illusion of separation from nature, from each other, and from the deeper patterns of creation, we are capable of destroying our planetary life-support systems, and killing the human species altogether.”

The 6th turn on the spiral had begun.

Now she also talks about the spiral having two parts—the outer and the inner. “The outer ring is planetary evolution. The inner ring is personal evolution.” So what we have is this spiral with an outer ring that’s moving at a certain speed and an inner ring, if you will, that’s moving at a certain speed. What happens if they’re not moving at the same speed?
This is exactly what Barbara Hubbard says is the problem. She says, “Starting around the year 2000, the acceleration of social and planetary change increased. We entered what Ervin Laszo calls a ‘macro shift,’ in which the whole civilization is under stress.” And I’d be willing to bet that every person in this room has felt the effects of this stress. It’s what I hear people talk about all the time—myself included—not enough time, confusion, frustration, too much to do.

At the same time “the process of individual self-evolution began accelerating rapidly. But individual psycho-spiritual evolution is proceeding much faster than social evolution.” Our social institutions–educational, political, economic [and I would add religions]—have not caught up, they have not changed. And this “is producing an entire civilization and environment tilted out of balance.”

And it’s accelerating. And many people are experiencing it as “confusion, desperation, frustration, or alienation [and depression]. But for some, it is awakening the Spirit within to a great desire “to participate in the process of creation, to restore the Earth, to heal the terrible inequities we see, to free people to be themselves, and to explore the universe.”
And I love the way Dr. Hubbard puts it. She says, “Gradually we find that we are no longer a local personality seeing the divine. Rather we become an incarnation of the divine, educating the local personality. . . the shift from ego to essence.”

But there’s also a 3rd ring she talks about that’s between the inner ring of self-evolution and the outer ring of social evolution. And that’s what she refers to as vocational evolution, that the vocations we’re now beginning to choose are more like callings and they’re often hybrids. In other words, they’re specialized and don’t necessarily fit the present occupational titles.

These callings fill us with the ”desire to give our best within the social whole.” And they take on the attitude of being “we-responsible” rather than you-responsible—some god outside of us. In other words, the creator is us, God within, as us, not some outside person or being.

There is Something Within us that wants to create a better world. Who here wants a better world? We all feel this.
But to do this we must put so much attention on the inner Self, the deep Self, the Higher Self, that when our other personalities are distressed or anxious or fearful, they will turn willingly, automatically, to that God-Self, the essential Self for healing. And once we have that firmly in place, it’s our modus operandi, what we have is a recognition of the power within us to heal not only ourselves but the world around us.

We are now ”in a global crisis, an emergency filled with terrible and dangerous symptoms: violence, environmental destruction, proliferation of weapons of mass destruction, dire poverty and the suffering of billions.” Many are predicting doom and gloom. But it can also be a “crisis of birth—a beginning rather than an end.” But this birth will require of the human race to identify its divinity.

So, how does this actually show up in our lives? As we continually operate from within, from our hearts, from our intuition, from the Wisdom within us, we are rewarded with peace and fulfillment. We’re Self-rewarded as we simply express our deeper Self.

But there’s something very subtle here that we need to understand. Because otherwise, when our intuition and inner guidance is leading us, our good little egos can take off in trying to make it happen in the outer world. And what Dr. Hubbard discovered was, “following the commands of my essential self, but separated from it, I was always late, I was always behind, I was always incomplete. So I tried harder to follow the higher guidance—the ego is insatiable. Yet it cannot succeed when in a state of separation from the source of its being. . . The ego is never fulfilled, even if you achieve great things. The next day, it requires a new goal.”

What she finally had to do was to stop all her efforts and come into alignment with the feeling of the guidance, which was peace, joy, wholeness, oneness and wisdom. She says, “I started to put my attention each day on the feeling of receiving guidance, not on the specific guidance itself.” And by doing this, approaching it this way, the life purpose within the essential self begins to flow with ease and grace. Do you hear what I’m saying? The ego must merge with the Higher Self, not feel separate from It.

And remember last week how I was talking about the importance of spiritual community? Listen to what she says, “When you join in co-creation with other people who are also tapping into the inner self, you experience a feeling of joy and ease and rightness as those shared codes unfold gracefully and effortlessly. You get over your own self-consciousness; you get past the boundaries of your egoic self, exhausted by its efforts to act separate from the greater flow. As the ego comes to rest in the vibrational field of the higher self, it loses its illusion of separation, which is the source of most human problems.”

It’s happening right now. Those of you who have taken Foundations class know what I’m talking about. It’s that experience of not being able to go back to your old ways of thinking and being. The new you is birthed. You can’t return to the womb. Eventually “the ego realizes it can’t tolerate being separate from source anymore.”
And as we do this, a change is made at the cellular level within us, as we know from the research of cellular biologist Bruce Lipton.

Dr. Hubbard says, “Nature has been forming whole systems for billions of years, and is pressing through us to form a whole system out of us, instead of contending parts. So when we identify with the inner self and reside in there, and let the biochemical shift occur that makes this our natural state, then our outer expression begins to conform to that organic pattern.”

We are all mothers giving birth to a universal human within ourselves. So happy Mothering Day to you all. This is the birth of mirth.

(Quotes are by Barbara Marx Hubbard from Healing Our Planet, Healing Ourselves, pp. 9-17)

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