Martin
Luther King, Jr., in being asked to publish some of his sermons,
wrote in the preface to his book, “. . . a sermon is directed
toward the listening ear rather than the reading eye. . . I
offer these discourses in the hope that a message may come
to life for readers of the printed words.” This
is my hope for you, dear reader. - Rev Linda
March
5,2006
A FUNNY
THING HAPPENED ON THE WAY TO THE MALL:
CLIPPING COUPONS
How many
of you have ever clipped or saved coupons out of a magazine
or a newspaper or flyer?
Now do you clip everything you see or are you discriminating? Do you only clip
those that save you, say, a dollar or more, or do you go for the 25 centers
as well? How about coupons for things you never would buy otherwise? And then
there’s the ones that I call combination coupons. If you buy this product
you save so much on the other one.
I used to
be a big clipper of coupons when I was younger and was playing
supermom. I remember this woman who’d written a book
about how much money she saved every week by clipping coupons.
I wasn’t that dedicated to it, but I clipped a lot of
them.
This whole
idea of clipping coupons intrigued me this week as I thought
about it. What are the implications here? What’s it all
about?
The whole
idea of prosperity and abundance can be a bit of a paradox,
it seems to me. We don’t want to be into the belief of
lack and limitation. But at the same time we do want to be
practicing good stewardship with what we do have. Where’s
the line? Well, of course, the only person that can answer
that question is the person who’s prosperity consciousness
it is we’re talking about. I can’t judge where
the line is for you, any more than you can for me.
As I was thinking about all the coupons I used to clip, I remembered the little
cardfile box I kept them in, with all the dividers separating them into categories—breads,
condiments, drinks, snacks. And I couldn’t help thinking there was something
of significance in that. It certainly indicated my seriousness in having them
organized so I could make use of them.
What are
these little pieces of paper, worth so much money toward some
specific thing? For that matter, what are those green, and
other-colored these days, papers we carry around in our wallets
and give so much attention and importance to? They really are
a representation of something, a symbol. Maybe of the way we
see our own self-worth, if we’re really honest about
it.
So this morning
as we start the new series for March—A Funny Thing Happened
on the Way to the Mall—we begin with Clipping Coupons.
And I think that paradox I mentioned earlier applies here as
well.
When we clip
a coupon, are we giving ourselves a gift, or are we penny-pinching?
And if we can’t be bothered to clip coupons, are we knowing
our abundance without them, or are we being wasteful? Like
anything else, it’s all in how we think about it. And
it also has to do with how much effort we’re willing
to expend.
A coupon
is a “certificate or ticket entitling the holder to a
specified right.” But in order to have an experience
of that right, to cash in on it, we have to actually use the
coupon. So we have to be able to find it when we go to use
it; we have to remember to take it with us to wherever it is
we plan to redeem it; we have to make sure we’re purchasing
the product that matches the coupon; we have to make sure the
coupon hasn’t expired; and then we have to remember to
give it to the clerk when we make the purchase. Now if we do
all that correctly, we can receive the gift the coupon promises
us.
So there
are many aspects of this coupon business that have to be worked
out properly. Let’s take a look at the first one—we
have to be able to find it when we want to use it. Do you know
you have a whole cardfile box of “coupons” for
exactly what you need when you need it within you, already?
You don’t have to collect anything or add anything to
yourself. It’s a field of infinite possibilities available
to you always. There’s a creative process, a power, within
you that will create for you whatever you desire. And unlike
the clipped coupon, you can’t lose it. But you can cover
it up, hide it from yourself, deny it, or just plain not bother
to use it. It’s your own thoughts and feelings. But the
trick is to find the thought and feeling that corresponds with
what it is we desire to bring into our lives.
So we need
to be very organized or clear in our thinking about the thoughts
and feelings we’re finding ourselves engaging in when
we’re wanting to manifest our desires.
Then we have to remember to take it with us to wherever it is we plan to redeem
it. Our “coupon” is the vision of our desires. We keep it ever
in the forefront of our minds. We act as if it is so now—because it is.
Remember, it’s not the material form or condition or event that’s
the important thing, it’s the experience of it, the spiritual essence
of what is underneath it, that we’re really looking for. And that’s
what we take with us.
If we’re
wanting a loving relationship, we carry that experience of
love with us everywhere we go. We love everyone we meet. If
we’re desiring a new car, we get in touch with the experience
we’re really looking for, such as freedom or beauty,
and we become conscious of freedom and beauty everywhere we
go.
If we want
more spiritual awakening, we might express wisdom and peace
and see these qualities everywhere around us. And in this way,
we make sure we’re purchasing the product that matches
the coupon. Because we’ve all had the experience of getting
some thing we thought we wanted and then realized it didn’t
bring us the joy we thought we’d get from it.
We also have
to make sure the coupon hasn’t expired. Is it too late?
Being too late could get you into trouble. Consider this story.
There was
a priest who was being honored at his retirement dinner after
25 years in the parish, and a leading local politician and
member of the congregation was chosen to make the presentation
and give a little speech at the dinner. But the politician
was delayed, so the priest decided to say his own few words
while they waited.
" I got my first impression of the parish,” he began, “from
the first confession I heard here. I really thought I’d been assigned to
a terrible place. The very first person who entered my confessional told me he
had stolen a television set and, when stopped by the police, had almost murdered
the officer.
He’d
stolen money from his parents, embezzled from his place of
business, had an affair with his boss's wife, taken illegal
drugs, and gave VD to his sister. I was appalled. But as the
days went on I knew that my people were not all like that and
I had, indeed, come to a fine parish full of good and loving
people."
Well, just
as the priest finished his talk, the politician arrived full
of apologies at being late. And he immediately began to make
the presentation and give his talk. "I'll never forget
the first day our parish priest arrived," he said. "In
fact, I had the honor of being the first person to go to him
in confession."
So you see,
it doesn’t pay to be late. Expired coupons. We can get
very attached to things being the way they are, long after
they’ve outworn their usefulness in our lives. We can
get very comfortable in mediocrity, even inferiority. We get
attached to our history and think it’s who we are. We
drag it around with us like a ball and chain. Throw those expired
coupons out! Get rid of ‘em. They’re just cluttering
up our consciousness and keeping us from our joy.
And lastly
we have to remember to give the coupon to the clerk when we
make the purchase. We have to use the gifts we’ve been
given. So often when I talk to people about their gifts, their
talents, they say, “I don’t have any talents.” They
think they can’t paint or sing or do crafty things, and
so they don’t have any gifts.
But every
single one of you has a gift that’s so unique to you,
you’re the only one that has it the way you have it,
and you’re the only one that can give it to the world
the way you can give it. We have to use what we’ve been
given. If you’re not sure what your gift is, start where
you are and declare often that you’re open to having
that gift revealed to you. And not only the gift, but how you’re
to use it. Your gift may be an experience of peace that people
feel everywhere you go. Maybe it’s the unconditional
love you give to your family and friends. Maybe it’s
a listening ear to those who have a need to talk. Maybe its
infinite patience in your work. Whatever it is, you have it.
Take my word for it.
Never think
your gift isn’t worth much. I close with this true story.
Near the
turn of the century, a sobbing, threadbare little girl stood
near a small church from which she had been turned away because
it was "too crowded."
" I
can't go to Sunday School," she sobbed to the pastor as
he walked by.
Seeing her shabby, unkempt appearance, the pastor guessed the reason and, taking
her by the hand, took her inside and found a place for her in the Sunday school
class. The child was so happy that they found room for her, and she went to
bed that night thinking of all the children who have no place to go to Sunday
school.
Some two years later, this child lay dead in one of the poor tenement buildings.
Her parents called for the kindhearted pastor who had befriended their daughter
to handle the final arrangements.
As her poor little body was being moved, a worn and crumpled red purse was
found which seemed to have been rummaged from some trash dump.
Inside was
found 57 cents and, scribbled in childish handwriting, a note
which read, "This is to help build the little church bigger
so more children can go to Sunday School." For two years
she had saved for this offering of love.
When the
pastor tearfully read that note, he knew instantly what he
would do. Carrying this note and the cracked, red pocketbook
to the pulpit, he told the story of her unselfish love and
devotion.
He challenged his deacons to get busy and raise enough money for the larger
building.
But the story does not end there. . .
A newspaper
learned of the story and published It. It was read by a wealthy
realtor who offered to sell them a parcel of land worth many
thousands of dollars. When told that they couldn’t pay
that much, he offered to sell it to the little church for 57
cents.
Church members
made large donations. Checks came from far and wide. Within
five years the little girl's gift had increased to $250,000,
a huge sum for that time, the early 1900s. Her unselfish love
had paid large dividends.
When you’re in Philadelphia, look up Temple Baptist Church, with a seating
capacity of 3,300. And be sure to visit Temple University, where thousands
of students are educated.
Have a look,
too, at the Good Samaritan Hospital and at a Sunday School
building which houses hundreds of beautiful children, built
so that no child in the area will ever need to be left outside
during Sunday school time.
In one of the rooms of this building may be seen the picture of the sweet face
of the little girl whose 57 cents, so sacrificially saved, made such remarkable
history. Alongside it is a portrait of her kind pastor, Dr. Russel H. Conwell,
author of the book, "Acres of Diamonds.”
If Spirit
can do this with 57 cents, what can It do with your gift?
In your program
this week, you have a coupon that you can use to help open
the gift you are, either by taking a class or having a practitioner
session. I hope you’ll take advantage of this coupon
you can use for opening to a greater expression of the magnificent
gift you are.
Let’s
pray...